How to Recognize an Abuser? #abuse #gaslighting #relationships #manipulation #darkness

The first red flag when a relationship starts with over- idealizing us. So we enter into a relationship and we can hear: "You are the best person I have ever met, but this is said in the 2nd hour of meeting or on the second date, when it is still impossible to get to know each other truly deeply." And this is all reinforced by the fact that you are the most beautiful and smartest there, but everyone before you was like that and very bad words are used. And this kind of elevation to a pedestal can be a sign that can attract other signs.